Monday, October 31, 2011

Njoyment

Sitting here one realised that with all the stuff one has written about the Njoy there has been very little about the practicalities of them like inserting them. It is sort of forefront of one's mind at the moment as one eases back into them after a small absence. When casually mentioning to Him what one was writing about, he gave some of his own helpful tips... sort of the "what not to do" variety. For the record treating them like a tomato sauce bottle and smacking them in is not a good idea, nor are other assorted sporting approaches such as bowling and trowing the damn thing.  

To be honest one has always found it easier to insert them alone. Mind you having read the above may have given some clues as to why this is. Really the secret is to find what works for you. They can be inserted in any position that enables you to reach comfortably. And as with all things sexual it helps if you are relaxed J

There is no right way up on the Njoy Pure Plug. Having chatted to a lot of long term users there seems to be an even split on point up or down. Personally one prefers point up as it seems to nestle between the cheeks better. It is one of those things that you will have to experiment with for yourselves.

Taking a good quality lube (one prefers silicone for long term wear as it doesn't come off easily), one prepares the arse by smearing lube inside it with a finger and then two fingers to gently stretch the sphincter muscles. Then one runs the Njoy under hot water 'cos it feels so much nicer warm, and then smears it with lube as well. Warming it also helps prevent the sphincter muscle cramping up... honestly they can be like getting pills down a cat when they are of that mind.

To insert it one stands feet apart leaning braced with one arm on the wall. For some reason it seems to give a better angle and leverage. Pressing the tip of it against the sphincter one applies an even pressure which causes it to give. Maintaining that pressure one waits for the sphincter to start gobbling it up. Which it will do quite nicely if you are relaxed... and it renders the tomato sauce bottle approach unnecessary J

Then the best thing to do is to wear it until it becomes uncomfortable. The idea is to increase the wear time over the course of a few days. Personally one finds it easier to wear them overnight than during the day... being active they have a tendency to make their presence felt more at that time. As with all things though be sensible... pain is the bodies was of saying stop!

9 comments:

lil said...

"Pain is the body's way of saying stop!"

I keep telling Him that dammit!

Vixen4770 said...

*points and laughs*

Master's piece said...

See that's where we all seem to go wrong. We need to do this stuff by ourselves :D

Vixen4770 said...

Well, you just tell him he's doing it wrong. :D

Master's piece said...

Umm... lil didn't have very good results with your "I am not a slave" reply. Really not sure one wants to try that advice...

Vixen4770 said...

*scampers off to look*

lil said...

I seem to remember a post where you said that the medium njoy worked better than the small...I'm willing to admit that I might have imagined that lol.

Now if one was slightly insane, and had such an item on their Christmas list, they would want to start out with the small one right? Since said insane person has never worn a plug of any kind outside of the bedroom...

Master's piece said...

Really lil you are better off buying the medium one and working on it... the small is just too small. Besides the medium is still better than the large that one usually recommends :D

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