You know one has just realised why one feels no connection to the collar. It's simply because one hasn't earned it. See we did this for a while and He liked the idea of a permanent one and et viola... before you could say wink it was slapped on. Little did one realise that it was going to be for years and years. As you can see there was no process, no earning of it, no time to forge an emotional connection born of desire...
Maybe what needs to be done is for it to be removed until such a time as one feels these things... and begs for it back J
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lol, think he'll go for it?
Worth a try :P
Have been immersing myself in these blogs for a while. I'm a borderline (male) and I find people-watching engrossing, and reading these is like watching people POV. If I may ask, what is it about the object of your desire that is falling below expectations? Is it not such a step above the last rung that it's rewarding, or does the idea of the permanant part stifle you? You said clearly earlier in the month that the stealth collar was smaller, lighter, and more comfortable. Excuse me if I've overstepped my bounds or been too aggressively inquisitive, I just have a desire to understand.
I told her I was quite happy to replace her collar for a pinch and prong collar like this one http://www.schaferkennel.com/M12-14.jpg and lead her around the house teaching her to heel until she begs for her other one back but that didn't seem to satisfy her. There is no pleasing some slaves:)
Piece, that thought was so fleeting it was positively transparent.
Good luck with that...
This is the link to the pic for my last comment to save you cutting and pasting pinch and prong collar
And there you get an insight into what one deals with on a daily basis ~rolls eyes~
@justlurking LOL you can be as aggressively inquisitive as you like... it is ask a question month apparently :)
So to try and answer your questions...
Firstly the collar is not an object of desire at all. Rather the opposite in fact. Look most people one meets regard their collar with great sentiment. Personally one finds them an impediment... a damned inconvenient one. They are hot, heavy and zig when you zag. Not to mention that they make one small slave far too easy to grab hold of :(
It is His little way of reminding one of his continual presence.
Secondly there is no progression in this relationship... well progression as in stages or levels. Actually that is a shame 'cos if there was, a demotion might involve not having a collar...
Anyway hope this helps explain things :)
Ahh...thanks for your reply. I've enjoyed my lurking as it is, especially the bits where you show your insides literally and metaphoically. I don't think I'll ever be as active as some who are actually in the lifestyle, but I do find it fascinating.
@lil - probably not as it's about what he wants and not one small slave. Which is why she remains stuffed in the damn thing
@piece - again....
*points and laughs*
Oh ignore RoboVixen, she is still cranky and in pain :P
Of course she is also right...
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