Sunday, September 29, 2013

The definitive list

All over the net there are handy little check lists so that you can work out if you are being abused. Of course most of them are subjective. Even here one has contemplated one of those lists and realised that although He failed so many categories one couldn't really use the word abuser... well not with any sincerity. The other day though ancilla_ksst left a reply here and one realised that she had hit the nail on the head.

See really it could come down to does he use lube for anal sex? The answer to that question may be what defines if you are in an abusive relationship or not. How simple is that? So much easier than a long check list of subjective things. Go for the question that is at the heart of the matter J

Oh and the answer round here is...
Abuser!

6 comments:

lil said...

He's supposed to use lube?!
Nobody told me...

*Runs off to confront abuser with new-found proof of his wrongness.

Think it will go well for me?

Master's piece said...

Probably as well as it does around here... good luck :D

ancilla_ksst said...

Well, that is one criteria that will leave an awful lot of men in the "abuser" category.

Now wondering if blood counts as lube?

And also, what of menthol lube? That is worse than nothing.

ancilla_ksst said...

I also wanted to say that as I was reading your blog here, my Master walked up and told me to get off the computer. Since the blog was open he read it. Now, ever since a few months weeks ago when your lovely blog was getting me in trouble for one reason or another (I don't remember) I haven't specifically pointed it out to him. I ran down to do the laundry and heard him laughing uproariously at this one. Just thought you'd like to know :P.

lil said...

It went wonderfully.
If wonderfully means bent over without lube...

Master's piece said...

@lil Well at least you have confirmation :(