A negotiated surrender

Right time to go to bed and fuck me to sleep He said in that tone.

Peering at him from the coffee table one was perched on one calculated the odds of getting to finish the coffee first. They were not good. Well we could or we could try that anal sex thing one offered.

Right to bed He said

Umm... no. The shower might be a better choice in this case. Mainly because head down starts up the coughing that delights Him so while leaving one exhausted and sore... in this case at both ends. But you are going to need to be gentle... it's been a while.

He sat there with a contemplative look on his whiskers

What are you thinking?

Well I was wondering He said in a reflective tone, which would be more gentle... slamming in hard a few times or lots of little thrusts spread over time

Looking at Him with exasperation and a measure of terror one pointed out that neither really constituted as gentle

So off we trotted to the shower... one rather closer than necessary for the comfort of the other...

And He started of very gently... applying lube... the real stuff not the more convenient soap... in a very diligent manner. In fact one started to relax thinking oh this might not be too bad...

Sighs yeah one should know better...

For the record His penis is much bigger than a few fingers and His experimentation with a few little thrusts followed by slamming in hard a few times before slipping back to gentle thrusts...

Yeah, as far as the arse is concerned? Neither is gentler than the other. They hurt equally, but in different ways.