Umm... hello?
A cursory glance at most of the CNC crowd around on Fet
would reveal the most articulate, mouthy bitches around. We wouldn't hesitate
to safeword, withdraw consent or retaliate against a decision we didn't like.
There was a reason our owners took away those weapons from us in the first
place. And yet we still manage to muddle along in long term relationships that
often border on the edge of normal.
One of the reasons this blog was started... other than to
amuse Him and pay homage to German engineering... was to show what one of these
relationships looked like. And let's be honest it is dead dull most of the
time. Mind you there probably isn't a reader out there who hasn't thought that
taking away those weapons was a sensible decision on His part... life
preserving in fact J
The trouble with the NCSF, who do a lot of good, is that
they don't realise that we don't look at their member's lives of scening,
protocols, traditions, fake hierarchies and public personas and think they are
our people. There is not universe in which we are ever going to say thank you
for giving us unsolicited advice on our relationships...
For one simple reason...
We do not acknowledge their authority.
Well that and the fact that no one likes the safety police J
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I don't understand the alphabet soup at all, but I do appreciate that you also own your decisions.
Such as they are. I also know that if any person in any normal relationship (and by normal, I mean loving) really needed to leave, they would.
So, there's that.
I think 'we don't recognise them as having any authority' is a factor responsible for a lot more ill feeling from people who feel snubbed than is often acknowledged.
@Kitty the National Coalition for Sexual Freedom :D
I'm done with defending my choice of CNC to people. This is my life, I play safe, I'm happy and how I chose to do this is my choice. Thankfully I avoid most of the drama on fet.
Well said, MP!
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