Saturday, October 5, 2013

Trust in a BDSM relationship

Tottering off to work with a migraine one expected the worst. What happened was that it was so dead, Monday is a public holiday here you see, that the boss happily released one early. So sitting at the bus stop one sent Him a message to let him know one was on the way home. He replied... rather a strange thing given the hour... and offered to pick one up.

The light was so damn bright that, even knowing that there would be a price to pay for this largess, one took up His offer. After a quick shower one presented to bed for payment...
Lying there afterwards, one of us with a tender arse, one asked if that was payment in full.
Well for this trip yes was His response.
That is a very specific answer.
Well you have a very large debt, He replied. Years worth in fact. I didn't want you reneging on the rest of it.

See people...
That is the much vaunted trust you read about in action. You may note that it is very different from the flowery stuff you read about on the net. In fact it is as far from the romantic notion of trusting them to do the right thing as you can get. But, it is clear and concise communication...

Sighs you know romance is dead around here... along with loopholes L

2 comments:

Neale Wolfson said...

I was going to comment on this earlier but decided against it, then realised something going back over your blog.

It was only TWO posts ago you were threatening dire endign to the man's shirts... How CAN he trust you when you threaten such things? I'm surprised that when he's not able to watch you he doesn't chain you up somewhere!

Master's piece said...

Oh in the beginning the cameras kept a pretty close watch ;)