Permission slips

As one has mentioned in the past we are not particularly ritualistic, but there are rules. One has to ask permission to do a lot of basic things that people take for granted. Some of them are a form of politeness; one can’t just make plans to do things without consulting Him first or run off to see a shop on a whim. Now these things have come about because one is less than thoughtful... historically one has just told Him one is off to do X, Y or Z without it even occurring He might have other ideas. And there might have been the odd time one has left Him chatting to himself because one has seen a spiffy pair of shoes in a window across the aisle, shop or street.  

There is no just orgasming (well there is occasionally) and things like using the bathroom to pee also need permission. Now that last one, though sometimes done because He does like to hear one beg while sounding desperate, is not for the usual reasons of control. It has come about because He likes watersports and as such He likes to watch. While He might make exceptions... say if one is in the middle of making a meal... He prefers one to use a method that has a more unrestricted view.

To this end a glass bowl is used or He makes one use the back yard. A thing one hates particularly when the grass is getting longer. Sometimes He puts down a pet mat and makes one use that. There is nothing like coming home from a drive busting and being made to use a mat like the family pet. It certainly keeps you in your place. It also makes you very grateful for modern conveniences.